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The basis for good manners and polite behavior for all ages and stages of life is found in the Bible. Scripture is filled with verses in how to relate to others well. If you’re needing resources for teaching your kids or grandkids to respect God, others, and themselves, dive into the Bible.
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Paul summed it up well in his letter to the Corinthians. “I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but not everything is constructive. (1 Corinthians 10:23). Nasty behavior is is never beneficial, constructive, loving, or kind. Unfortunately, the right to do or say anything is part of our worldly “me first” culture.
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As Christians our behaviors are to reflect God’s glory. So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God (1 Corinthians 10:31). The Love Chapter, 1 Corinthians 13, identifies specific behaviors to mirror the love of God. “Love is patient, kind. Love is not envious, boastful, proud, self-seeking, or easily angered. Love rejoices with the truth.It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”
Jesus summed it up well for us in what has been labeled the Golden Rule, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” (Luke 6:31 and Matthew 7:12). Both Matthew and Luke recorded Jesus words about how to treat others.
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When our goal is to honor the Lord in every way, we remain aware that we represent Him everywhere we go. Polite manners and proper etiquette are ways we earn respect and the right to speak into people’s lives. The way we behave, from the dinner table to the soccer field either attract or repel others. Jesus is our model for loving others well. Following Jesus, living by His words, speaks Truth into the lives of our family members, friends, and the world.
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