Blending Our Family… 45 Years Later

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Guest blogger, David Appelhof, shares his experience with us in creating a blended, faith-filled family. I love the way he and his wife, Diane, had a goal beginning with Jesus as the center of their family life. A special thank you to Diane and David for sharing the story of blending their family.  xoBecky Years…

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10 Tips for a THRIVING Marriage

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“Dinner table discussions are all about the kids; homework, sports, and chores.” “We never have a moment to ourselves.” “Sometimes I look at my spouse and wonder, ‘When did we lose the spark?’” Let’s face it, marriage is hard. It’s like any relationship, a person needs to communicate and spend time with the other person.…

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The Babysitter Checklist for First-time Parents

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This post is specifically for new parents. Dating is really important for your marriage. The new little bundle of joy needs you, but you can and should take a break, with your spouse to have some fun as a couple. The baby joined your union. Find a great babysitter takes time and effort but is…

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Date Night is Marriage Insurance

What’s your best tip for a bride-to-be? Words of wisdom from those of us who are married are often times shared at bridal showers. Some ideas are sound advice; others are downright funny. “Keep the lines of communication open.” “Settle your differences before you go to bed.” “Be kind to your mother-in-law.” “Don’t share a…

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An Awesome Gift for Your Kids: A Strong Marriage

I was giddy. The hotel was beautiful, the restaurant opulent. This was special, dinner and an overnight date, just the two of us. Scott and I had just left our bags in the room and were waiting at the elevator to go for dinner when we received the call. “I’m so sorry but your son is…

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What God has Joined, Let No One Separate

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A dad in a parenting class once said, “As soon as the kids came on the scene, I slipped down a notch on my wife’s radar screen. The dog and I now compete for second place.” His wife poked him the ribs with her elbow and frowned as the other parents at the table laughed.…

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Love Each Other

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This month is all about LOVE! It’s a giant attribute and a command from God. Jesus tells us in John 15:17, “This is my command: Love each other.” But what about when you just don’t feel very loving? Many years ago, my pastor spoke on love and marriage in a sermon, encouraging men to love…

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A Fascinating Valentine's Day

Valentine’s Day is next week, February 14th. What are your expectations for the day, a romantic candlelight dinner, gorgeous red roses, a heart-shaped box of chocolates? It’s so easy to get caught up in the trappings of the day. What if your Valentine’s Day was fascinating this year? I hope your curiosity is piqued! Heather Larson,…

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Unity in Your Family

Thank you! I’m grateful for all of you who subscribe to this blog. Today I’m embarking on a new adventure, vlogging (video blogging). I hope you enjoy the first vlog post! This week’s topic is Unity in the Family. Everyone desires a tranquil, peaceful home. Chaos and unrest are created by disunity. How are you…

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Date Night

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Spontaneous date night is not really an option with little ones in the house. A plan is necessary! Unfortunately the plan is often times determined by the babysitter’s schedule. Funny how a thirteen-year-old can dictate date night. Sick kids can play into the equation too. I remember one special evening. Scott and I had a wonderful…

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