Becoming the Babysitter’s Favorite Family

You’ve found a GREAT babysitter. You and your spouse finally have a relaxing night out, just for two. How do you keep the teen happy that makes your kids happy allowing for couple time? The Golden Rule is the key, “Do unto others as you would have done to you” (Matthew 7:12).

1. Be respectful. Don’t take the babysitter for granted. Set the bar high with the expectations you have for your children in regard to their behavior with the sitter.
2. Be trustworthy. Stick to the agreed upon fee and schedule for each occasion. Be on time.
3. Be thoughtful. Provide easy meals and quick snacks for the sitter to prepare and serve to the kids. Provide a Babysitter’s Checklist with information regarding bedtime routines, meals and snacks, rules of the house, and other pertinent information. (Click on the link for a FREE checklist.)
4. Be kind. Additional services like running errands and housework need to be agreed upon and paid for accordingly.
5. Be generous. When the evening ends, pay the babysitter in cash. Compensate experienced and trustworthy sitters well. (If your plans change, offer partial payment to the sitter.)

Everyone appreciates knowing what a job entails. Communicate your expectations clearly when the sitter is hired. Take into consideration the following questions.

• Where can emergency information be found, including parent’s cell numbers, home address, poison control, etc.?
• What are the rules for technology? Consider cell phones, computer, television, gaming, and movies.
• Is the babysitter responsible for cleaning up after playtime and meals?
• What can the babysitter eat and drink that is different from the children?
• Are any parts of your home off limits for the kids and babysitter?
• Who will arrange transportation for the sitter?

Take time to get to know the teens you hire to care for your children. Ask your kids what they like best about the sitter. The relationship you build with the babysitter offers tremendous benefits.

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