Connection Builds Executive Function

Connection builds executive function in young children. Self-regulation, problem solving, and attentiveness are all executive function skills we want our kids to master. Research has determined children excel with secure attachments. Unconditional love and the knowledge the parent will be supportive in all circumstances enables a child to be confident and better handle challenges in life. This enhances executive function in children.

7 Tips to Build Connection with Your Child

1. Be trustworthy and dependable to provide security and safety.
2. Connect one-on-one with your child often with good listen skills.
3. Be patient. Ask and answer questions.
4. Allow the child to be courageous, exploring and taking risks, within limits.
5. Help your child label his emotions and assist in self-regulation.
6. Be an advocate, training the child to advocate for himself to get along with others and solve problems.
7. Love your child unconditionally and completely.

What’s the best way to enhance these connections? PLAY! Play-based activities in preschool and at home, allow children to practice self-regulation, problem solving, and attentiveness, executive function skills. These skills include attending to the task at hand, thinking creatively and critically, and controlling impulsivity. These readiness skills are imperative for children to succeed in school as well as life. So play with your kids, have fun, and get silly.

Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.
Chronicles 16:34

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