Don’t Solve Your Grandkid’s Problems

Don't Solve Your Grandkid's Problems

Are your grandchildren experiencing life, in real life situations? Do you solve your grandkid’s problems? Are your grands encouraged to fully enter decision-making, problem-solving, conflict-resolving situations? When adults (grandparents included) step in, children don’t have the opportunity to step up, to be responsible and experience the consequences of their decisions. Life is more difficult in…

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Raise Responsible Kids

A child in a green shirt holds a colorful map, embodying the spirit of exploration. Above, the text reads "Raise Responsible Kids," pointing to resources like FaithFirstParent.com and FaithfulGrandparenting.com to guide in nurturing responsible young adventurers.

Raise responsible kids. It’s an ongoing task for parents. Guide kids in making good choices because as kids mature, the stakes are higher. Modeling accountability, having appropriate expectations, providing routines and opportunities for kids are all part of raising children to be responsible adults. Seven Tips to Raise Responsible Kids Model Be trustworthy, honest, dependable,…

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LOVE-HATE Relationships with Social Media

A person sits on a large log outdoors, using a Samsung laptop to browse social media. They wear a dark jacket and leggings, with a blurred forest and mountain scenery in the background on a cloudy day.

How do you feel after checking in on your social media pages: happy, sad, excited, intimidated? The emotions vary. But sometimes the newsfeed can actually be down-right depressing. Don’t other parents have vacations turn into disasters? My house will never look like a magazine spread. How can so many of my friends travel to so…

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Keeping Them Safe: 5 Tips for Helping Kids Grow in Maturity & Wisdom

  “You can’t keep them safe, so you have to get them ready.” My ministry partner and co-author, Lori Wildenberg, shared words of wisdom with me a number of years ago when my kids were young. She knows I would have preferred to encase my boys in bubble wrap at that time. Now, as teenagers, that’s…

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